@dimage, the "Q67" chipset is supposed to work, i.e. has VT-d.
http://ark.intel.com/products/51997/Intel-Desktop-Board-DQ67SW
the "Q77" chipset is listed has working with VT-d and is newer
http://ark.intel.com/products/64027/Intel-BD82Q77-PCH
though their listing for a desktop board with Q77 doesn't list VT-d, odd?
http://ark.intel.com/products/59044/Intel-Desktop-Board-DQ77MK
for a ESXi whitebox i wouldn't want the integrated graphics on the board but thats just me. still trying to decide on a MB
others on the boards here can offer more help and insight for you i hope